Leith & Beyond

About the Creator
Hi Im Kitty Chambers-Karlsson a self confessed mega fan of Charlie & Craig Reid aka the Proclaimers. I reside in the beautiful Macedon Ranges, Victoria, Australia where l live with my Daughter Kofi and our Golden Retriever Puppy Finn. I hope you enjoy my tribute to two of the best musicians of our time... To learn more about me please read my life & Times, Much Love Kitty ..x
Charlie & Craig true legends....
Is there anything better than sitting back at the end of the day with a glass of wine and listening to the Proclaimers on Vinyl, yes there is.... being in the front row of one of their concerts. I was fortunate enough to get tickets to their recent Melbourne show and as always l had the time of my life, these amazing Scotsmen never ever fail to deliver. From the moment the boys stepped out onto stage l knew it was going to be a night to remember. 90 minutes of classics and songs from their new album Dentures out... the climax was 500 miles when the crowd erupted and to my daughters horror l was up on my feet screaming out the lyrics, all l can say is Charlie and Craig you are living legends.

Hey Bartender…
Let's get married
I love and I want to stay with you
Let's get married
Have kids and grow old and grey with you
Let's get married
Hold hands when we walk in the park
Lets get married…
One of the most, not only important but exciting things someone can ask you, is lets get married, though saying that it can also be cringeworthy and l have been on the end of such a proposal, more of that later.
Do people still want to get married these days? I know some people who have been burnt and will never go down that path again. I am not one of them. l sometimes feel l have been married more times than Elizabeth Taylor but does that deter me, no of course not lm looking for my happily ever after, lm a never say never sort of gal.
To most marriage is the ultimate commitment, its more than a piece of legal paperwork. Marriage means many different things, to many different people. It can be difficult to find a universally applicable, true meaning of what marriage truly is. There are so many differing viewpoints on this subject and people often disagree about what marriage means to them, we all have our own point of view and reasons for marrying the person that we love. I can only give my views and I know you are dying to know.
Marriage to me means blending two lives into one. Learning from each other, creating strong bonds, living, loving and ultimately growing old together. Sharing the good times and also dealing with the bad times, because there will be some and your strong bond of love will see you through. What I have learned is that marriage is like a super-strength glue, that binds and holds together all the pages and chapters in the book of life. It represents a sense of foundation, strength and unity. There is a reason we commit to love and support one another through thick and thin, in the good times and the bad, in sickness and in health. Life happens after your wedding, and it will be good and bad and everything in between. It will be exciting, fun, rewarding and exhilarating. For me personally, marriage means strength when I feel weak, it means love and knowing that someone is there to support me when I feel overworked and exhausted. It means knowing that someone has got my back. Finally you have someone forever and ever. Officially a team. Supporting, encouraging, and loving you unconditionally.
On the flip side a proposal thats unexpected and from someone that truly isn’t husband material due to one or up to ten reasons can be a little confronting. How do you deal with that, do you take the sympathetic approach or maybe the approach lm headed to Africa for 12 months with a NGO so l cant commit or sorry lm actually a lesbian? Either way no one wants to hurt anyone, but sometimes it cant be avoided.
I remember the first wedding l went to, it was my cousin Rosemarys l was only 15 and l guess it did leave a lasting impression on me, as l went on to tie the knot numerous times, remember my Liz Taylor comment.
Wedding receptions are always eye openers, from family members that look like they need to be kept 100 metres away from children to distant Aunts and cousins you’ve never met or haven't seen since you were in nappies, and how apparently you used to run around naked and play in their paddling pool, my goodness get me out of here. No wonder l headed off to the open bar and to the horror of my mother who called for my father and said, Les carry her to the car. l guess that third or was it fourth Bacardi and coke was having a hilarious effect on me. I actually think me hanging off Uncle Douglass and saying l loved him was a dead giveaway that l was on the turps. I guess it was just a bit too much for this teenager who was only used to chocolate milkshakes, but hey l don’t blame myself, it was the Bartenders fault he never asked my age, how can l be held responsible for his lack of judgement. I look back on that wedding and apart from the obvious it was a great one. Theres something about friends and family and the love that surrounds everyone at such an event, its just beautiful.
Weddings can be wonderful and at the end of the day if all goes well that love and commitment will last a lifetime.

Swipe right... ?
Thought that I was destined
Destined to be nothing
Destined to be nothing in this world and then I met you.
Finding love with the right person has never been easier. Now, you no longer have to be at the right place at the right time to meet someone that you’re compatible with. With online dating, and a bit of science, you can easily find people you’re compatible with. As long as you put yourself out there a bit, you’ll be able to find a lasting love… or so they say.
I’m not new to online dating, as l have dabbled a little over the years. l have had good experiences and some horrific experiences too. Dating is like getting a massage, if it’s good, you’ll feel great afterwards, refreshed, optimistic, with a new lease on life. But if it’s bad, you’ll feel regretful, glum, and like you need to take a long shower. It’s difficult, and it can often not go as planned. We’re all used to the guy who can’t pay for dinner because he ‘forgot’ his wallet, and the date that just can’t get over their ex, or that guy that needs his mother along for moral support. Dates can be like that, you take the good with the bad and take it in your stride always keeping one foot in front of the other.
One of the amazing things about finding love through an online dating site is that most single people are on one. If you’re desperate to find love, you won’t find it. Often, you’ll hit this point where you’ll realise nothing you’re doing is working. Instead of dating, you should take a break from the search. This is your opportunity to improve yourself, build yourself up, and get in the right mindset. Shortly, after coming out of this break and trying again you will find love again, I’m a true believer that love happens, or at least finds you when you don't expect it… well, for me, it has.
To find love you need to know who you are. Ultimately, you want to find someone you want to learn more about and who wants to learn more about you. Otherwise, it’s just infatuation based on physical appearance. Who is the person at the core? That’s the exciting part. Every single person on the planet has a few amazing experiences and stories that led to who they are, focus on unravelling those stories out of them. You’d be amazed at how interesting everyone can be.
Believe it or not, most people have no idea who they are, and even more have no idea of what they want and desire in partner. Some of us do have pre-requisites, our future partner might need to be financial, professionally employed, have no children, drive an expensive car, have virtually everything in common, or look like Chris Hemsworth. I have never had any set preconceptions of the man l want to spend my life with. Of course, you have to be physically drawn to someone, but ultimately beauty is in the eye of the beholder, what l find attractive, you may not. You can meet someone and think ‘holy cow, this guy is all that and a bag of chips’, but a few dates later, you’re thinking ‘hmmm… he’s a sniffer and wants to lick my feet’, to you that might seem a little bizarre, and you’ll think ‘I’m not sure if he’s the one for me’ or you might embrace his quirkiness and think ‘well at least he likes how l smell and thinks my feet are beautiful’, so you give it a crack.
Do you really know someone until you actually live with them, that’s the million dollar question! As l know you all value my opinion, l would say… no, you don’t. From personal experience, you need to actually live with someone to know if they are truly the one for you. You can talk on the phone for hours on end everyday of the week, share photos, video, personally though, l don’t, no-one ever looks good on Facetime, you can basically have a full blown loved up relationship, but it’s not until you are physically in the same house as the other person to truly know them. Living 24 hours a day together you get to know their ways, what makes them tick, you see the good, bad, and ugly, for some of us it will be a dream come true… for others it’s suitcases on the driveway and a ticket back to Norway.
Do we believe in love at first sight? Some say no, others say yes, but until you actually experience it you are a doubter. I have experienced it, many moons ago on a trip to South Africa, I met someone l classify as the love of my life. I was at a beach bar in Durban called Joe Cools, and l walked up the stairs and saw this smiling face looking at me, l then smiled back and he walked over and said, ‘hi, I’m Jonty.' And that was it, the earth moved for me, and we became inseparable from that moment on. We spent all of our time together, exploring, travelling, foam parties, family get-togethers, the cricket, anything and everything. The months we spent together where the happiest time of my life, and although I had to come back to Australia, our time and the love we shared was like nothing l had ever experienced.
It’s important to remember that you can find love online, in-person, or at a Proclaimers concert. You never know when you’ll bump into the right person. So, keep your eyes open, wear your heart on your sleeve, be kind at every opportunity, and get to know people on a deeper level. And remember, it doesn’t matter how old you are. You can find love at any age. As long as you’re alive, love is everywhere. And it’s waiting for you to find it.

Knickers On...
I would walk 500 miles
And I would walk 500 more
Just to be the man who walks a thousand miles
To fall down at your door
Da da da (da da da)
Da da da (da da da)
In March I took my daughter to her first Proclaimers concert and yes she did have a great time apart from her mother embarrassing her a little or if you ask her a lot. Fifteen year olds apparently don’t need to see their mother up on their feet and screaming the lyrics to 500 miles and moving their arms around and around like they are having some sort of bizarre fit.
But did l care, no of course not isn’t it a parents right to embarrass their child, well thats my view on the situation, maybe because my mother more than not did things like that to me while l was growing up. l remember once hearing her telling my Aunt Mavis about throwing her knickers up on stage at a Tom Jones concert, my god even though the mere thought of that sent shivers down my spine, part of me thought what a ballsy or rather crazy thing to do, not that l would ever do any such thing, but at the last Proclaimers concert l went to, the thought did cross my mind. But due to the fact l didn’t want to be carted out under police escort my knickers stayed in place for the duration of the concert plus lm not sure Charlie would appreciate a pair of my knickers at his feet or even worse in his face.
My daughter went to their concert only knowing the songs from the Sunshine on Leith Album due the fact It was playing non stop in the days leading up to the big Melbourne concert. I was surprised on the way home she wanted me to put their CD Dentures Out on in the car, lucky l bought it at the Merch stand, though lm still kicking myself l didn’t get that T-Shirt l saw, can we ever have too many? After 90 minutes at the Athenaeum the Proclaimers now have a new young fan, that is the effect these great guys have on people young or old. Now due to the fact l basically only play their music on Spotify and on my Marantz turntable in the lounge room , she is a total convert, which is quite remarkable, a teenager who loved K-POP and the Rolling Stones now suddenly adds the Proclaimers to her list of favourite bands.

Im on my way..
Holidays... we have had good ones, and also ones from hell. Well I'm here to tell you a little bit about one of my experiences. I'm sure you're sitting back, reading this, and thinking 'my goodness, we've heard about love, weddings, children, what’s next? ' As always, l get my inspiration from listening to The Proclaimers, and while listening to “Love Can Move Mountains” I felt l had a story to tell, so here we go…
A family trip to Kenya – What could possibly go wrong…
Over breakfast one morning, my mother said out of the blue; Lets go to Africa. I was quite shocked. It's not something you hear at 7.00am while eating your Weet-Bix. From the other end of the table, there was silence... did my father hear her, or was he choosing to use his great selective hearing techniques? I looked at her, spoon in my mouth. I looked at him, eyes glued to his newspaper, then the words from behind the paper.
"How soon can you pack?"
Was he serious? I thought, here we go again. I was used to this behaviour from my parents. They had a knack of being impulsive, and as l have grown, I'm a little that way myself, but Africa? How on earth did she come up with that? Was it that Tarzan movie we watched last weekend, or was it something else? Upon further questioning, my mother went on to say she had always dreamt about the vast Savannahs and climbing Mt Kilimanjaro, sharing a glass of Mnazi (palm Wine) with the locals and experiencing a different way of life. I thought our time in the Commune in Murwillumbah was a different way of life, but obviously not. They were both in agreement, so it was Kenya here we come!
It seemed to take forever to get to Nairobi.
"Are we there yet? Are we there?" My mother's mantra of 'Yes dear, almost" seem to go on and on, but eventually, it came over the loud speaker.
"Raise your trays, put your seats back up, we will be landing soon." Here we go. I thought 'let the games begin'. Upon arriving on the Tarmac, the heat from the sun was something I hadn’t experienced before. It was extremely hot, really hot, though it was Africa, what did I expect? To be honest, I was starting to get excited, I could only imagine what the next month had in store for me. We picked up our luggage, and found the counter for our rental car, and made our way outside. Waiting in the car park for us was a Khaki soft top Land Rover. Now this was Africa, wow! We're actually here. My father pulled out a map and said "Lets go!" but to where? I had no idea, and after a relatively short drive, we pulled up outside what seemed to be a rather posh hotel. It was the Norfolk Hotel, we ending up spending two days there acclimatising and making plans, stocking up on supplies, and before l knew it, we were on the road….
On the road to where? l hear you ask, to Kilimanjaro! The distance between Nairobi and Mount Kilimanjaro is an epic trip, most people fly, but my parents wanted to drive and experience all that Africa had to offer; That’s what we did. We drove, and stopped, and drove some more, stopped for petrol, spoke to locals, even shared dinner with a Kikuyu family that my father shared stories of Australia with whilst buying fresh fruit. He was always up for a chat, and was curious about other people, wanting to know all about them and their life stories. We stayed in Kimana for a few days. Spent time in the Chyulu Hills watching elephants and Zebra, but no lions to my father's disappointment.
We were on the move again, and on our way to the foothills of Kilimanjaro. Climbing Kilimanjaro does not require any technical skills or special equipment, just some physical fitness, determination, and the right guide to help you along the way. We were lucky to have found two Tanzanian brothers that were experts in climbing Africas highest mountain; Barasa and Chege. They were the friendliest pair you could ever meet. Before we knew it, we were sitting by a campfire, sharing a hot tea with lashings of sugar, apparently a staple in this beautiful country. A hot dinner of Ugali and Irio and it was bedtime, we needed to be up early for the huge day ahead. It was going to take around 7-8 days to complete, Barasa said slow and steady gives you the best chance of success, many people try and fail because they make the trek too quickly.
With a 6.00am start from the Marangu trekking trail, and we were on our way loaded up with everything we needed, and then some for the 60km plus trek. All together, there were ten of us, and as you may expect, my father was on a first name basis with everyone. The first day was relatively easy, the scenery; beautiful. The monkeys in abundance. When I climbed the mountain, I was not prepared for just how cold it would be. My double pair of socks, extra layer of thermals, fleece top, and warm hat helped – but I wished I had even more layers to keep me warm.
When climbing 10 – 20 thousand feet, it is important to pace yourself. The slower you go, the more oxygen you will get in your body and the better you will acclimatise. The reason to go slow is that your body is working harder at higher altitudes. That's caused by the change in air pressure as altitude changes. As you climb, pressure drops. This means the air is thinner, and the result is a reduced availability of oxygen. The porters will tell you 'pole, pole.' which means 'slowly, slowly'. Think of The Hare and the Tortoise. Be the tortoise. Walk slower than you normally would, and your body will thank you.
Drinking enough water is also very important for you to have a successful summit climb, I always had a full water bottle in my backpack, along with plenty of snacks to do my best in preventing Altitude Sickness. As the days passed the trek got more difficult. My mother suffered with a little altitude sickness but nothing was going to stop her getting to the top and with the support of my father and everyone else she made it. We all made it. We passed through five different climate zones on the mountain, including lush rainforest, low moorland, alpine desert and the famous arctic summit.
Standing on the summit of Kilimanjaro, Uhuru Peak, is an indescribable moment that fills you with a sense of accomplishment and wonder. As the sun rises over the African continent, we basked in the breathtaking 360-degree panoramic views, surrounded by glaciers and vast expanses of African plains. This is a life-defining moment, a testament to our determination and the power of human spirit. I had made it. There were times when I almost thought I wouldn’t, but I did. We were like a family our trekking group, friendships that stood the test of time, especially Dougie and Janette from Manchester, they became life long friends to my parents and even came to stay with us in Australia.
Our Trip back down the mountain was effortless as was traveling back to Nairobi, via Mombassa as my father felt the need to go diving, something he had never tried, but hey, we're in Africa! 'Lets do it' was his motto.
Africa is the most amazing place. Our trip was life changing, l returned in my 20's numerous times. To me, Africa is stunning, and ever-changing, blessed with magnificent diverse landscapes, tropical beaches and jungles, deserts and mountains, open savannahs, and everything in between.
